At a time when Republicans are politicizing the very existence of transgender people, New Jersey has taken the opposite approach. NJ now protects those seeking gender-affirming healthcare such as high-quality hormone therapy.

NJ Governor Phil Murphy this weeks signed an executive order protecting trans folk (and their families) from several forms of discrimination. And unlike the times when Murphy’s support for LGBTs feels performative, this EO is a big deal.

Trenton Councilwoman Jennifer Williams is New Jersey’s first transgender municipal lawmaker.  Inspired by Minnesota’s affirming embrace of trans persons in the face of red state hostility, Ms. Williams sought to recreate Minnesota’s hospitality here in New Jersey and so she shopped the idea around.

“Governor Murphy’s Executive Order ensures that all transgender and non-binary New Jerseyans will continue to be legally allowed to get any necessary, gender affirming-related care,” Ms. Williams told InsiderNJ. “This includes transition care, mental health counseling and any other care recommended and approved of by the American Medical Association, American Psychological Association, and the American Academy of Pediatrics. This EO also makes New Jersey a safe haven for all those Americans in states such as Arkansas, Idaho, Iowa, Kentucky, Mississippi, Missouri and South Dakota that have or will soon be banning best-practice medical care for transgender youth – even though their parents lovingly support them.”

“As a psychiatric medical professional, I am particularly pleased that professional licensing boards have been prohibited from suspending or revoking someone’ s license for providing or assisting in gender affirming care,” Ms. Walpin told InsiderNJ, referring to a practice that happens elsewhere. “This EO will save countless lives; by offering gender affirming treatment with dignity and respect, suicide rates will decrease. I am proud that NJ has taken a leadership role in caring for all in the LGBTQ community.”

(Trans youth are increasingly vulnerable to homelessness, violence, and suicide.)

Ms. Williams and Ms. Walpin helped to spearhead the effort which lead to this week’s EO after watching similarly-intended legislation languish in NJ’s democratic-dominated General Assembly. That stalled bill, sponsored by NJ Senator Andrew Zwicker, is the latest in a long series of social issues that Trenton democrats are slow to embrace such as gay marriage and weed.

So on one hand you’re got the GOP still using the lives of LGBTQ folks to score political points. And yes, there’s an all-too-familiar mean-spiritedness with which red states intrude into the medical decisions of trans folk (something to reflect on the next time you hear a republican whining about big government.)

And on the other hand, you’ve got NJ’s notoriously timid Democratic Party once again running from the issues their base cares about most with real-world negative consequences for anyone living on the margins.

And that’s what make the allyship of straight politicians like Mr. Zwicker so meaningful.

“As a parent, I want what any parent wants – to make sure that our children are safe and healthy,” Mr. Zwicker told InsiderNJ. “As a legislator, I am responsible for speaking out and protecting everyone I represent. So when I heard from parents who are fearful for their (trans) child’s health, safety, and well-being or from people who are scared to be who they are, I felt an obligation to defend their freedom in the face of attacks and to let them know I support them.”

Jay Lassiter is an award-winning writer and podcaster based in Cherry Hill. When he’s not Tweeting, he’s busy keeping the government out of your bong and your womb and your bedroom.