Zachary Dougherty: Gopal’s Lessons in Civility

You might assume that New Jersey is the last place to search for a lesson in civility. We seem to have a legendary reputation for some unscrupulous characters. I suppose like most things, you never really know until you have an educator who challenges you to look deeper. As a student attending Monmouth University, I had the privilege of learning the intricacies of New Jersey state and local government under Professor (Senator) Vin Gopal. It has become increasingly clear that we live in a nation which has forgotten the essential quality of displaying common decency toward one another. Beyond the basic framework of Jersey politics, Professor Gopal conveyed that integrity matters above all else in the Garden State.

In an effort to comprehend the saturated layers of government, Senator Gopal arranged an All-Star roster of New Jersey public servants. The guest speaker list varied in political preference, influence, and notoriety. Each speaker reinforced the qualities of good citizenship required to survive the political arena. These are the lessons my classmates and I had the honor to learn.

Former State Senator Joe Kyrillos– A person’s character transcends all political boundaries and commitments. The most courageous legislators maintain a humble sense of humility for their actions.

Former Lt. Governor Kim Guadagno- Helping others in their time of need is the greatest reward for a public servant. Take amazing opportunities to help other people because they may never come again.

Former Governor Jim McGreevey- Build lasting relationships and never underestimate your self-worth.

Lobbyist Mary Kate Roberts and Gene Mulroy- Lobbyist are not all as evil as they’re painted out to be. Everyone has the power make their voice heard in Trenton.

Assemblywoman Joann Downey and Freeholder Director Tom Arnone- The best leadership is rooted in compassion and kindness.

NJMVC Chief Administrator Sue Fulton and WMUA Chief Executive Officer Brian Valentino– Years of experience and hard work make better leaders. Leadership is pulling the brightest people around you to form a team.

Mayor Erik Anderson, Chairman Wyatt Earp, Board of Ed. Members Ben Forest and Janice Fuller- It is crucial that you be mindful of your community and listen to the opinions of your peers.

Monmouth University Pollster Patrick Murray and Asbury Park Press Reporter Susanne Cervenka– Stay true to your profession and follow the numbers. Don’t allow other people’s opinions discredit your hard work.

Our professor remained professional and unbiased throughout our entire course. He reserved his personal convictions while we engaged in discussion and debate. Above all else he emphasized the value of treating others with respect.